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Pool Days

Last weekend I took Callie to the pool at our gym.

For most families, going to the pool isn’t a big deal.

For us, it’s a bit of an adventure.

I won’t lie, I normally try to steer her away from asking about going swimming at the public pool just because it’s a work out.  Physically and Emotionally.

There’s the physical aspect to it.  When we go to the pool, once Callie gets her sunscreen on and her cover up tossed on her chaise, she is ready to go.  Except, we have to take off her leg.  And then I have to carry her to and from the pool.  All 70 pounds of her.  Multiple times.  She can’t just run and jump in the pool like all the other kids.

And then there’s the emotional aspect of it which is an even harder workout.  It’s not easy to deal with the stares, the side eyes, and the weird looks we get once her prosthetic leg comes off.  There is a different vulnerability she has when she takes off her prostethic in front of strangers–she literally is baring her soul to the world at that point.  In that moment, there’s no hiding that she’s very different from everyone else.

But this time, she said “Mama, I don’t care what other people think.  They don’t matter.  I want us to go.”

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So we did.  And she taught me that it doesn’t matter what other people think.  And if I let it bother me, it will trickle down to Callie and she will start to hesitate to do things for fear of what other people will think of her.  She has just as much right to play in the pool and feel comfortable doing it as anyone else.  If others are bothered by it–that’s none of my business.

We went to the pool.  I didn’t bat an eye when I took off her prosthetic leg or when I carried her from the chaise to the pool.  She splashed and played and had a great time.

We did get odd looks and some people pointedly stared and gestured at her.  My hope is that she doesn’t let that affect her.  My hope is that by us continously showing up for our lives, we will empower others to do the same.  My hope is by continuing to not hold Callie back from anything she wants to do, she will grow up learning that she can breathe fire, scale mountains, and slay dragons. My hope is that by showing up authentically others will do the same. Comfortable showing up with their “perfectly imperfect” selves.  Comfortable showing up with every ability and body type.  My hope is by showing up it will open the door for conversation about differences, inclusion, and abilities.

If you need us for the rest of the summer….we’ll be at the pool.

 

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Jaime

Hi everyone! Thanks so much for stopping by! My name is Jaime! Wife to my better half, James, who is my moon and all of my stars. We are parents to our little warrior princess, Callie Grace. We started this blog to share our journey as we navigate through our crazy beautiful life. Callie is a lower limb amputee and I am a Type One Diabetic. We are hoping to change the face of beauty one step at a time! We hope by sharing our story, you leave with a little bit more inspiration and hope! Thank you so much for stopping by and joining our tribe!

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Hi Y'all! I’m Jaime, a proud working mama, author, girl boss and wifey to an ultra-adorable husband. I am a huge book nerd, I drink coffee like my life depends on it, and run on dry shampoo and Amazon Prime. Leopard print is my favorite color. I am a story teller at heart and this blog is a virtual scrapbook of our crazy beautiful life. I'm a Type One Diabetic and our little warrior princess Callie is a lower limb amputee. By sharing how we’ve chosen to flourish in the garden we’ve been planted in, we hope you can take some small nuggets of hope, inspiration, and laughter. We are so grateful that you’ve found us—welcome to the fam. We embrace our perfectly imperfect lives and don’t let the doctor’s appointments, spreadsheets, speaking engagements, 10th birthday parties to plan, housework or date nights overwhelm us. Those things are just the beautiful reminders of all the blessings in our lives. Read More

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