Hobbies
This girl loves horses. And we have told her since she was 5, she could quit anytime she wanted. Because we want her to do it because she LOVES it. Not for competition, likes, trophies, medals, or accolades. Because she…
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No Choice
“Where there’s a will there’s a way.” “You always have a choice.” “Choose joy.” Y’all know me. I will be positive and optimistic til the day I die. It’s how I live my life, it’s the lens I look at…
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The Green Eyed Monster
I used to wonder if it was jealousy. Was I jealous of the other families? The ones that were “normal”? The ones that had kids enrolled in all the activities–sports, cheer, dance, and track? Was I jealous of the complete…
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Diabetes, Food, and Me
I see a therapist regularly–between the weight of Callie’s medical journey, James’s uber stressful job, and my own chronic health condition, simply talking to someone who helps me unpack things & organize my thoughts is key to my emotional well-being. …
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Make Horseshoes
Talking about inclusion today….. Especially if you are the parent of a middle school girl. What we’ve noticed since Callie has started middle school is an almost “quiet bullying.” The girls are not overtly mean to Callie. They don’t push…
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Chosen
I was told my whole life I wouldn’t be able to have a baby due to my Type One Diabetes. And so when I got pregnant, I felt like finally……this was going to be my redemption story. After years of…
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I Don’t Have….
I don’t have any happy, joyful, beautiful newborn pictures with Callie. I don’t have any pictures of her nestled up on my chest after giving birth. I don’t have any pictures of her with James after he cut the cord….
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More Than We Were Ever Prepared For
She was a hope. A dream. A wish. A thought. An idea. A silent prayer that I had tucked away in the deepest part of my heart. And then in an instant, she was a tiny little fuzzy image on…
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My Daughter’s Leg Doesn’t Need a Trigger Warning
I remember being at the pool this summer and Callie taking off her prosthetic. She doesn’t swim in it (obviously) and I heard the mom next to me on the chair mutter under her breath “Geez a little warning would…
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I’ll Love You for Ears and Ears
This year we did a little something different for Callie’s birthday. Most years, she gets a fairly big present but this year we wanted to give her an experience and an amazing memory–especially since she was turning 13. We decided…
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